I could not find satisfying work and I found this especially difficult as I had
a lot of experience and a Masters degree.
To my shame I was driving a school bus to make ends meet and living with
friends. I had lost my apartment. I had been through five interviews with a
company and one day between bus runs they called to say I did not get the job. I
went to the bus barn like a zombie of disappointment.
Later that afternoon, while doing my rounds through a quiet suburban
neighborhood I had an inner wave like a primal scream arise from deep inside me
and I thought“Why has my life become so hard?” “Give me a sign, I asked...a
physical sign枭ot some inner voice type of thing.”
Immediately after this internal scream I pulled the bus over to drop off a going through hard times.
little girl and as she passed she handed me an earring saying I should keep it
in case somebody claimed it. The earring was stamped metal, painted black and
said“BE HAPPY”.
At first I got angry ,yeah, yeah, I thought. Then it hit me. I had been putting
all of my energies into what was wrong with my life rather than what was right!
I decided then and there to make a list of 50 things I was grateful for.
At first it was hard, then it got easier. One day I decided to up it to 75.
That night there was a phone call for me at my friend’s house from a lady who
was a manager at a large hospital. About a year earlier I had submitted a
syllabus to a community college to teach a course on stress management. (Yup,
you heard me. She asked me if I would do a one-day seminar for 200 hospital
workers. I said yes and got the job.
My day with the hospital workers went very well. I got a standing ovation and
many more days of work. To this day I KNOW that it was because I changed my
attitude to gratitude.
Incidentally, the day after I found the earring the girl asked me if anyone
had claimed it. I told her no and she said“I guess it was meant for you then.”
I spent the next year conducting training work-shops all around the Seattle
area and then decided to risk everything and go back to Scotland where I had
lived previously. I closed my one man business, bought a plane ticket and got a
six month visa from immigration. One month later I met my wonderful English wife
and best friend of 15 years now. We live in a small beautiful cottage, two miles
from a paved road in the highlands of Scotland.
“THE ONLY ATTITUDE IS GRATITUDE”has been my motto for years now and yes, it
completely changed my life.
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