第1个回答 2013-09-13
Method one: 1, active communication. Usually a chat with parents and school of learning, and parents about the psychological, let parents understand inner thoughts of children. 2 and empathy. Do not easily and parents, standing in the back of the parents, parents and consideration. 3 and respect. Something out, should contact with their parents, so parents worry, to listen to their parents, also want to put forward its own views. When divergent viewpoint, both parties should think about the cause and the divergence of the solution countermeasure. To seek common ground while reserving differences communication results. 4 and more tolerant. Beareth not haggle over every ounce, because parents are most of our people, our favorite person. 5 and there are changed. Don't hide your own mistakes, let parents help us to correct our mistakes, parents is our best friend. 6 and initiative to help. Help your parents do some force to make them happy,. Method 2: active communication style one day find some time before or after meals, for instance, and dad and mom active talk about their schools, teachers and friends, happy or unhappy things together with family, to share your joys and sorrows. Style 2: create opportunities with parents at least once a week do one thing, such as cooking, the labor, play, shopping, watching TV. While doing things, edge. Style: listening when parents criticize or scold, don't worry, try to listen to breathe, perhaps your parents will know the reason behind the furious with their parents. Moves to apologize 4: if you do it right, don't evade, do not ignore the silence, offer an apology, often have parents understand. Five: action is considerate, you may not you have great injustice, but not to argue. Parents too tired or work may have trouble in life. Change the time and place, to communicate with their parents, would have unexpected result. Six: action communicate with bad mood, invol obstinate temper, and to avoid accidentally say or do hurt others. Want to be angry, can leave a deep breathing, wash with water, or to the face. Responsibility 7: action in his own things at the same time, some of the active sharing family responsibility, for example, wash dishes, garbage, window, do some work, etc. Opportunity can chat with ssi. Eight: discussion, shuangjian agreement with something to discuss how parents, and action to reach an agreement. As parents worry that their children indulge computer studies, if can waste of time and playing computer to discuss and balance of the agreement, and can solve the differences