第1个回答 2010-05-09
The first to woman's house, a bit nervous? How was the father-in-law of future mother-in-law not to PK off? Let me give you some advice.
1 appearance to clean
Dress and generous demeanor, clean!
The first requirement of the girl is appearance clean. Even if they usually wear is exquisite, can this time must be well packed. No matter you are very handsome,
Appropriate dress can give others a hint, can let person felling you really care about the family home. It is a total of honour family, they will watch you through the dress for them to judge your value.
2 note multi-purpose honorific that costs less than civility,
After the meeting, warm greetings to greet people. Appropriate greeting and greet can cause communication conversation interested and desire to talk, talk, make the active atmosphere friendly, kind to continue. Mouth sweet heart, to call the family. But also wants to notice, don't too modest, otherwise you'll be very natural. After all, everyone is family soon.
3 gift must take, but not too expensive
To understand the grade of the family, to know that his gifts, but not to let others happy. When the gifts should be natural and graceful - not in a corner, gift to break up in just meet or near the time to face.
Four eyes into objects, whether she doing
This can transfer to her parents a signal that you care about their daughter. At the same time, the girl will be also very happy that you care about her.
Five more help her work, must work together to do
This is the most parents need to see, see the children such mutual love, not mad.
6 don't smoke or drink
If you don't drink or smoke, then continue your style. If you smoke, you'll have to injustice. Usually there is family against smoking, if you will not converge to others, even a bad impression. as
Drink, can drink less, but must pay attention to, the Chinese are hospitable, as a guest, you can fill, it will be a big can. So must note.
7 when eating things don't talk so much
In the process of meals, is a very common thing. But to choose appropriate topic. In addition, in the mouth with food, try not to speak, to avoid inadvertent food to drift carelessly.
8 don't take too long to chat, adequate time for good, to short
After the time chatting with parents shoulds not be too long, for they may rest, in order to welcome your coming, they must prepare a lot of time. So to allow them. But, first met, excessive talking a loophole, or is wrong, so if you miserably. So try to shorten the time talking to them, which can take care of themselves, and to avoid making mistakes, why not?
9 when to say thanks
It is important to remember that ends well, not a thought of leaving is happy, a happy everything else forget. Thanks you, good manners for parents to prepare everything, you make them feel no white busy, can you endorse them will be more happy.
10 to let go the first object to reflect your girlfriend's parents hope their respect, her daughter to find a love of her husband. Seeing this, they would laugh in the face, sweet in my heart.
11 to flexible
No one layer of law, the article changeless also not the truth, you will XiangJiErDong flexibly,.
Believe that you will harvest, look good, there should be no problem.本回答被网友采纳