第1个回答 2009-09-29
The key is in view of their parents, children, and tied around the growing environment. However, for a conscious children, some thing is the lack of communication with family, but still parental responsibility more, their behavior makes children unwilling to communicate with them
A physically, older than our parents, so whether physically or mentally than we are. Parents and rich experience and than we do, cautious and than we. So they have the ability to take appropriate measures to communicate with their children. If parents do these and make yourself with children between "gap", then the main responsibility is to parents.
Second, from the thought: parents don't understand their children, and their children don't know what to think, what? Parents with only their own special status, mandatory requirement parent children do things they do not want to do, and all their heart was suppressed. Think you say or do is make sense, are right, it will make parents and children "gap".
Third, from family, parents are position householder, they hold economic power. For example, children's learning and they always not put their shelves and face, and thus can not communicate with children equally. In order to safeguard the dignity, the prestige and the parents of the children, they would not accept all kinds of advice, always like their beck and call. Parents of this "supreme", will make between parents and children "generation gap".
Modern education from four, the children to speak: accept education and family education, education of their children is one of the most important education content. In the family education must talked about the relationship between parents and children. We know a good family environment will form a harmonious and a warm family. If the family members, inevitable meeting produces gap between celebrates mother-child growth cause certain effect. Parents of children and character of the china-southwest will have. Children born from parents, became the children, they enlightenment teacher training and education for the children's responsibility and obligation, but also they undertake social responsibility. And parents might give family duty on a shadow, family, and their children's indifference pessimistic, negative thoughts.
Five, the development from age: parents' life experiences are mostly in the 1980s. Past experience they tasted the hardships of life, they don't want to let children repeat, therefore requires children accept their ideas. But with the development of The Times, the progress of the society, the children with parents have formed in different ways of thinking and philosophy, it is inevitable that occurs between parents and children, parents "gap" and actively communicate with their children. * * * gay once said: our thoughts to keep pace with The Times. But they just didn't do it again.
Conclusion: 7. Junior high school graduation, belong to the child before the minors, the parents of a minor are tending obligations, they not only is to care for children's body, food, still should be very good education child, ensure children have a healthy mind. If parents do these children, with our own responsibility, of course, should have a gap between parents to negative.
The gap is different between two generations, to the same things have different views have different ideal. Different environment make different people and different circumstances make different ideas. It is these different form our today's topic. We think the problem of generation gap is parents and children shall have two main responsibility, but in his parents.
The gap is produced, itself is due to the inequality, do not understand and respect for the minister prince, though father for classes, the old concept early, but it is negative in the parent's heart is still strong.
Parents and children usually talk taught kids, worshipers of absolute leadership of absolute rule attitude all show. This makes the relationship between parent child formed between a master-slave relations. The development of relations, will be subordinate to the generation gap.
I want to ask the classmates, today all parents want equal dialogue with which, the parents don't want to get the respect and understanding? So, why is friendly argument on subjective speculation on the logic of irrational to unreasonable collision our views?