英：
The world as far as I know there are only two people, men, and women. Is the person on the person close to the exchanges and therefore, the interaction between boys and girls like to eat, as all want to avoid lay-away, what have you is worth the fuss?
I think that put the world on this issue is not bad as a bite of the hard bone of our country and only Chinese you. Chinese culture for thousands of years to create the idea that such a foundation can not be avoided, but also can not talk about the topic is being affected by our side, "Love not to" teach respect for the statue, while a critical study of feudal ethical code, extol the great literature of love . And then you find a more contradictory to give my watch?
It is precisely the contradiction between this approach to increase cover the vast number of young people's love of mystery and interest, empathy, and it is precisely because of the mystique of the drug and yearning for so many people fell into a deep quagmire. Of course, emotional and drug-use analog to do is a very wrong concept. But many teachers and parents might be wrong depending on the drug even as scourges Love? ? ?
Is not to say that only between men and women have the so-called Student Love, Friendship will not have. However, the composition implied by the title is clearly meant to do! Moreover, more than that, it is friendship or love regardless of what is wrong with it? Developed a ten-year-old children do not (man) is a girlfriend thing is a shame, just like my country to marry 40-year-old does not think people will be like is there is AIDS. Love and even how to? Many children were forced to study, study or even offensive. Today also is not interested in their studies in order to give up the feelings of interest in this possible? The result is nothing but Love going underground, by the prescribed dimmer, that could be carried out by the right guidance to become管不着no one, no one管不了. Even the bad aspects to this worth it?
Is precisely because of such irresponsible and chaotic to evade the prohibition of causing all kinds of questions. You go on to see which country the world by storm as the situation of youth and death due to emotional problems of students at the school has so many Chinese as well as any country from our country of the matchmaking system is so advanced? Of the United States is such an open country is no exception.
Still remember the "Peacock Flies to the Southeast" section in the mother-in-law analysis: three decades of熬成both daughter-in-law, easy to do a mother-in-law, daughter-in-law is better than how can? She has to do his own daughter-in-law how can we forget the pain when the mind. People is the feelings of animals, people have a lot of experience Love at a young age, many of the same people under social pressure, can you forget such painful feel it? You also want to eat the next generation of people and you suffer the same吗?
Exchanges between men and women, this is not a worthy of the table write the topic. Now they are still high to the point where such a complicated, is it not the sorrow of the new education吗? Friends Do not care for men and women, education, sooner or later, without distinction, without the need to love is limited.
When, education can do the "three no", when the problem will be solved.
汉：
世上据我所知只有两种人，男人，和女人。是人，就的和身边的人交往所以，男女生之间的交往就像吃饭一样，想避都避不掉，还有什么值得大惊小怪的吗？
我想，世界上把这个问题视为啃不烂的硬骨头的国家也只有我们中国了吧。中国几千年的文化思想底蕴造就了现在这种无可回避，又无从说起的话题，我们一边受着“不要早恋”的尊尊教导，一边学着批判封建礼教，歌颂伟大爱情的文学作品。你再找个更矛盾的来给我看？
恰恰是这种遮遮掩掩的矛盾做法增加了广大青少年对爱情的神秘感和兴趣，同理的，也恰恰是由于对毒品的神秘感和向往让无数人陷入了深深的泥潭。当然，拿情感和毒品做类比是一个极其错误的观念。但不少老师和家长又何尝不是错误到视早恋为洪水猛兽甚至于毒品？？？
并不是说，男女同学之间只能有所谓爱情，不会有友情。但是这个作文题目中所暗指的就明明是这个意思嘛！而且，余以为，这无论是友情或是爱情又有什么错呢？发达国家一个小孩子十几岁没有（男）女朋友是件很丢人的事，就像我国40岁不结婚就会被人认为是有艾兹一样。就算是早恋又有怎么样？许多孩子被逼着学习，甚至根本厌恶学习。而如今又要其为了不感兴趣的学业而放弃感兴趣的感情，这可能吗？这样做的结果无非是使早恋由地上转入地下，由明转暗，由原本可以进行的正确指导变成谁也管不着，谁也管不了。甚至走向坏的方面，这值得吗？
也恰恰是由于这种不负责任的回避和乱禁止造成了各种各样的问题。你去看看世界上哪个国家为情所困的青少年和因感情问题枉死的在校学生有中国这样多，又有哪个国家的婚介体系由我国这样发达？便是在美国这样性开放的国家也不例外。
还记得对《孔雀东南飞》中婆婆的一段分析：三十年的媳妇熬成婆，好容易做了婆婆，又怎能让媳妇好过？可她却怎能忘记自己做媳妇时心中的痛。人是感情动物，许多人都有在年轻时早恋的经历，也有不少人同样的迫于社会的压力，难道你们忘记这样痛苦的感受了吗？你们还想让下一代人吃和你一样的苦吗？
男女之间的交往，本不是一个值得提到桌面上来大书特书的话题。现如今却竟然高到如此复杂的地步，难道不是新教育的悲哀吗？ 朋友无所谓男女，教育无区分早晚，恋爱无必要受限。
什么时候，教育能做到“三无”，什么时候，问题就会迎刃而解。
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