可以通过以下方法看出对方是否把自己微信加入了黑名单：
1、需要给对方发一条消息，如果显示“消息已发出，但被对方拒收了”的字样，则说明好友将你拉黑了。
2、看看还可不可以看到他的朋友圈。点击他的头像进去看他的朋友圈。如果看不到就是被他删除或者是拉黑了。
如何取消黑名单：
1、打开微信右上角的个人设置菜单，然后底部的“设置”，并点击进入查看。
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2、找到“隐私”菜单，然后点击进行查看和设置。
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3、找到中间的“通讯录黑名单”选项，然后点击进入。
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4、选中要移出去的好友，再点击右上角的设置。
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5、在弹出的选项菜单中，找到并点击“移出黑名单”，如果黑名单的好友不止一个的话，需要不断重复以上操作。
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