Since I go to middle school, I stay away from home and live in school from Monday to Friday. The first time for me to leave home made me felt so lonely. I did not have friends here and no one to count on. But I told myself that I needed to try to be independent. So I solved all the problems by myself, I washed my own clothes and cleaned the bed, which were done by my mother before. I found that I could take care of myself without my parents’ help. What’s more, I made good friends here, we had the same interest and we helped each other in study. A year passed, I learned a lot and became independent.
Growth is a pain, but I don't want to let it leave scar. Growth is a metamorphosis, experienced hardships to break cocoon.
In the growth of the road is often lonely, to learn in no one's time to give ourselves. Don't worry, fear brave, frankly, facing the growth of everything for yourself in the faith, encouragement, give yourself to yourself. In the growth of the journey, we need is calm, quiet, bravely facing.
Standing on the threshold of the adult, the eyes of the young people are still may face. Young, bright eyes, revealed a cynical smile, lonely lurk gentle sadness. Maybe this is sad to grow, rejoice, frustrated with relief, noise with halcyon.
Once the bitter memories of the day, in the picture, has a fragrance. Whenever night with lightsome pace shanshan, the flourishing and noisy, and gradually disappeared in the quiet night, I often into the boundless memory. In memory, the promise of desire and beautiful promises that grasping the persistence and unremitting efforts, the blade into my happiness, elaborate collect.
Yes, the pain and growth record, grow under the engraved along the footprint, step by step, we become mature and future.
Academic society independent The bird has grown up, must learn in the deep blue sky to spread the wings to hover; The fish has grown up, must learn in the broad sea to have a good swim boundlessly; But the human has grown up, must learn on the thorny path alone to face, the my first academic society is independent, is alone in the home “the defend position”, I then, only then kindergarten cultural level. As soon as remembers that night, I then “threw” smile came out ......
That day, night very quiet, moon is dusky, the star babies are afraid as if very much, walks arm in arm in the cloud paternal grandmother's bosom, is not willing to come out the small face dew. Outside the window, blows several cool winds. This kind terrorist “the clever piece scene” as if is the God already prepares well. In the peaceful family, I closely shrank a group, looked around toward in every direction, “bang ~” any sound, I looked toward the window, “mother! The ghost has come!”I am unable to restrain to yell that sees only one “the demons and monsters” positively “to dance with joy” walks to me. Naivete I run up to the balcony hastily, brought “Jin Kubang”, fits out Sun Wukong's appearance, “dull, the monster, eats my stick!”Wants to hit toward the monster, as soon as calms oneself down looked, is unexpectedly hangs on window's pig's feet, really lets me not know whether to laugh or cry ......
Also remembered at that time, I have done a very weak matter, before sleeping, I used the colored wax pencil to draw the lifelike big tiger on the paper, but also very happily pasted it in the gate, this only then felt at ease goes to sleep, because I believed that had the big tiger to protect me, everybody did not dare to bully me! First time alone still let me in home's scene have a vivid memory, because that was I first time has learned the independence, was also I one step which succeeded on the rough growth path!
At present, many parents of middle school students to read with their children. To read with parents, there are advantages and disadvantages. Advantages are: You can make your child eat meals, to help kids do the laundry, so that children have more time to study and rest. The disadvantage is that: the child's capacity for independent living can not get paternity support, and with little contact time students will have a serious impact on their interpersonal skills, thus the child's daily communication in the future inconvenience.
When we talk about being independent, we often think about leaving our parents and living alone. The mental independence is always ignored by people, mental independence means the person can measure the things and make the right decision. As for the children, even they move out and stay far away from their parents, but sometimes they just can't control themselves, they will get the bad behavior, like smoking and drinking, their life is losing control. The young people need to cultivate their independent spirit, they should think by themselves, learn to take care of the other people, thus they can be the real independent. When a person grows up, they can be strong enough to support their lives and at the same time, they can be mature enough to make their own decision. They can tell what is wrong and what is right.