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对自己提升很大的心态
人来人往,其实错过谁都没有太大的关系,只要没有错过自己就好。无论犯了多少错,或者进步得有多慢,你都走在了那些不曾尝试的人的面前 。
对自己提升很大的心态
1.不怕别人对自己失望
因为是他们自愿对我有期望的,这不是我逼的,我不欠他们的。用这个心态可以减轻因为在意别人看法而导致内心压力大并影响自己能力发挥的情况。
2.克制自己的同理心和共情能力
虽然同理心和共情能更容易感知到别人的情绪,但这种能力太强,容易让自己成为讨好型人格。
3.表达出来的跟内心完全一致并相信对方也是如此
任何对方语言或行动上没有表达出来的意思而且我也没有观察到,那就认定为没有。